Stephanie Charles – Bio
So who am I?
I am a daughter. A mother. A sister. A listener. An adult child of an alcoholic. A victim.
The lonely one. I am a friend. A co-worker.
I am many roles in this world. I am multifaceted.
I am still creating my own story. I know that I am so much more than the labels given to me. However it no longer is about “who am I”.
My greatest transformations took place when I discovered the Akashic Records. My metamorphosis has given me insights, understanding, love and tremendous healing.
Today my search is for “what am I.”
Within the chaos that surrounds our lives, we can discover a beautiful symmetry that can allow all of to look at the puzzle pieces of their lives and place them in such a way that allows us to begin to see the bigger picture of who and what we are.
It is for this reason that I chose to become a “Consultant of the Akashic Records”. The Record Keepers have given me so much and it is time to return the favor.
About Me
I am a person just like you who has walked in many different shoes through out life. As a child, I considered myself a victim of an alcoholic parent. The other parent was a provider and the rock to hold onto for myself and my siblings. Eventually my parents divorced and I spent my teenage years living in Germany.
As a teenager I was the listener. The one who would listen and no one would hear me. I lived two lives at that time. The teenager who was out going and happy and the teenager who deep inside was very lonely. In my late teens I returned to the U.S . to spend time with my father before he passed away due to an illness.
In my twenties, I continued to live my childhood experiences by searching for partners who would abuse me. This allowed me to create more drama and chaos, because this was what I was used to and all I knew. At the age of 29 I became a mother of a beautiful baby girl. This was a very exciting time for me and I love being a mother.
In my early thirties, I realized that my life was no longer working for me. By looking deeper at my life and the patterns within me, I chose to no longer play the role of being a victim. On my search for change I started to understand that as a child I might not have had the choice of what went on around me. However, as a grown up I had the choice to remain in the victim role or to break out of these roles and weave my own life to my own liking.
I am now in my early 40’s and in the last 10-12 years I have grown immensely. From shedding old habits and peeling away old layers to truly discovering that everything that has happened, serves a purpose and helped me to become who I am at this moment.
Today I am a being, who enjoys and loves life and who looks forward to my destiny. I have come to understand and recognize many occurrences in my life as helping hands on my earthly journey. We create patterns in our lives from our experiences and the universe will answer this by providing us with opportunities to evolve and grow. The opportunities given to us from the “source of all life”, reflect where we are now and will nudge us in a direction for growth and the evolution of our soul. It is our choice to embrace the love that Spirit offers us daily and to trust that each step taken, will lead down the path of enlightenment. I am still growing and gaining new insights. My journey seems long and there have been many times where I have stopped along the way in the effort of self discovery and becoming whole.
Hi Stephanie,
I found your info from the ARCI site.
I have experienced the Akashic records before in the past.
I would be very relieved to know indepth about my own journey regarding the immidiate current and immidiate& forthecoming future as this would clarify my life and purpose.
How much are your charges and are they very dear?
Please correct me if I am wrong but, I have always believed that the collective uncosnciousness or Akashic repository has full information of where we came from and what we are undergoing and what the future holds for us, many things are pre destined by our own souls before we took birth and we do have free wil to exercise but certain things like, birth, death, marriage,soul groups, relations, genetics and DNA come pre ordained with nothing to change…
We manage to reach the destined target inspite of our wrong turns and little delays?
I await for your response….
God bless& Gratitude
Leo
Canada
Hello Anjan I am more than happy to respond to your questions by e-mail. What I would like to share now is that having worked in the Akashic Records with many people of different backgrounds, the year 2009 represented many difficulties and endings. I experienced first hand how there is no end to the knowledge within the Records and that we as individuals have a say in our own destiny. Not everything is set in stone or pre-ordained that the “life essence” that surrounds us has a fluidity and a purpose as well and we are part of it. Change is all there is within the awareness as we live our lives and yet we are already at the end of our destiny.
I will be in touch with you per e-mail over the next day or so. Thank you for asking your questions and expressing your thoughts.
Stephanie, Would you please take the time to explain the sentance above….Change is all there is within the awareness as we live our lives and yet we are already at the end of our destiny.
Best
Joyce
Hello Joyce….thanks so much for taking the time to visit my website. As you can see it is not complete and I really need to do some work on it.
The best way to explain that particular sentence is….from the very beginning the universe was created with the perspective of duality. Matter vs anti matter. In our own lives it is the same, we tend to view everything as a duality. Right and left, up and down, front and backwards, right and wrong, black and white etc. Even when we see the grey shades (that hopefully one day are viewed as brilliant colors) we still tend to look at our lives and the world as a duality. Living within awareness of our lives…..such as taking time to feel our breath, the ground beneath our feet or how about touch….when we pay attention we feel and discover things that normally pass us by because the majority of people are in a way sleep walking. You will find that the more awareness you have the more you will see those gray areas as brilliant colors and they are all changing all the time. Nature is a beautiful example with the four seasons. Nature is always changing. So are our bodies, cells die off all the time and new ones replace them. In essence while you may feel it you really are no longer identical to who you where yesterday. So everything is changing all the time. On an even bigger scale you will start to see that “time” really has no meaning and the walk you are now walking is only part of a big picture or better put of a greater walk you are walking. If you draw the infinity sign and draw a few dots on the infinity sign you will find that there is no beginning and no end. Each dot represents a life you have, are and will live. The infinity sign represents time. Now in front of the infinity sign draw a little stick guy who is looking at the infinity sign. This is you. Your soul that has completed so many lives already. You, the stick figure cannot find on the infinity symbol when your first life was let alone when your last life was. They are in a way all happening at once. Now if you would be so good draw another infinity symbol and simply place it differently however both of the infinity sign meet where the lines intersect. In other words one of the infinity symbols looks like an 8 the other one looks like and 8 laying down….kind of would look like a cross at this point. The second infinity symbol represents another dimension and if you draw some dots onto that you will see that here to you are living lives. So you are not just simply in the material world but also in another dimension. If you continue to draw infinity sign that intersect eventually your drawing will look like a flower. And what do we have now? The flower of life and smack in the middle where all the infinity symbols meet….we have the breath of God breathing in and out of everyone of our lives.
Because we are here in the now…most times asleep…hopefully awakening….we are unaware of our own perfection in every way. Even when things are not going to well we are perfect the way we are to handle and choose how we need to deal with each and every situation. I don’t recall if it came up for you or not but many things are about learning to act instead of react. The little stick figure you drew is your soul in all it’s glory, already complete because we are a part of the cosmic love shining on and through the universe. That little stick figure sees the big picture of ourselves and our connection to the infinite….it is in this life that the more awareness we gain the more we too are able to see the bigger picture and know and trust that all events that are taking place in our lives is in our best interest. This changes everything and we learn to love life and act so that we may move forward on our spiritual journey in the material world. And this walk is important. while our soul may already be complete and shining brightly….our time here and in every lifetime regardless of where it is taking place is important. We are learning to become “aware” within the different worlds or for right now in our world here on earth.
I hope this made sense. If not let me know, I am more than happy to talk to you on the phone about it if there are still some questions on your mind. Also I wanted to say that the flower of life is one of the oldest symbols here on earth and it is well worth studying. It was some time ago that my Record Keepers gave me this explanation and drawing of the infinity symbols that create the flower of life. But there is a lot more knowledge for me to learn about this as well and I am working with my Record Keepers to understand and integrate all of this information into my own life.
I hope I did not confuse you.
If I did let me know.
As an after thought Joyce….my website is called infinite symmetry of 8. We come from the infinite (Gods Love or the love of the cosmic creator) enter symmetry (material world) and pass back into the infinite (creators love). The number eight represents infinity. So we are always entering into a perfect cycle of life. Within each cycle (reincarnation) we are learning to become more and more aware while we are in the material world. Time is infinite for us so that we may learn at our own pace which is also always changing.
I actually received the name for my website long before the flower of life explanation. But see how life can work? Long before I realized where i am heading when I started this website I was guided onto this journey simply by having received the name for my website….never realizing it would one day be connected to the flower of life and that I would be receiving and working on such an in depth subject. Not just the Record Keepers but all of life around us is constantly speaking and guiding us…it is up to us to learn to listen.
How do we reach you for a reading?
At this time I am creating a new website and you will be able to purchase readings or as I call them sessions through the new website. I will be placing a link on this website that refers to my new one. Also my e-mail address is symmetryof8@gmail.com and you can always contact me that way to set up an arrangement prior to my new website being finished. I believe we spoke already on the phone and have already discussed this however I wanted to answer your post as well in case anyone else had the same question.
Thanks.
Those truly are beautiful words Stephanie they have helped me so much
Much Love
Leanne
Thank you Leanne. May love and Light shine upon you always.
Stephanie, I believe what follows is part of what I “learned” as a result of the gifted reading you gave through yourself to me.
The soulmate bond and the love are the deepest you will ever experience, and the personal growth and transformation will be the deepest of any relationship you have.
However, it can be a real rocky road, filled with tears and pain as you each struggle to grow into wholeness, which is the purpose of the soul mate relationship. We came into this life to grow, not stagnate. After we have healed our core issues, we can have much more of that bliss like you did in the beginning. This is why it is so important to focus on the issues your ego and expectations you are holding on to, so that you can grow, heal, and experience this bliss of Self Love, with zero ego attachment. The more self love you gain the more compassion and understanding you will be able to give.
Also, you have to trust that sometimes soul mates are meant to stay together, after a long period of healing.
The bottom line to remember is that a soul mate relationship is not accidental, it is intentional.
Do you agree?
Yes i agree!!! Nothing exists that can be called accidental. Self love is so very important. If you are kind to the self and love the self this can’t but vibrate from your entire being out into the world and touch all that is around you. We are the creators symphony and our soul/spirit desires to sing the song of our own divinity. Working our way through struggles, and you are right they can be very painful, is about shedding that part of our ego that holds onto our inner pain. The deeper you go within yourself the more you cleanse away the layers of pain, hurt, anger etc. the more you will reach the never ending pool of joy and freedom that bubbles from within us. Meeting ones soul mate is a gift and yes is intentional and it comes into our lives when we are truly ready for the encounter.
Love and Light to you Joyce
Hello Stephanie
I just wanted to know if it is possible to get the information for Akashic records through telephone and if so how can I contact you. Another thing I wanted to know if I can learn acessing Akashic records after getting instructions form book or attunement is must?
Thanks
Hello Megha,
Yes it is possible to get the information over the phone. There are all kinds of different ways to access the Akashic records. If you are wanting to access the Records without a lot of guessing and hoping you are accessing the records I would suggest you take a class or training from someone who access’s the Akashic Records. There is however a book written by Linda Howe (The Akashic Records) that explains to you how to access the Records with a particular prayer (which is different than mine) and in her book she describes several practices you can do to learn and feel what it is like within your own Records. I will be honest though from experience I know that people at the beginning do not trust in what they are hearing, feeling or seeing because there is no guidance. However the book is a good way to start if you are interested. Someone who has experience though can teach you how to ask your questions and to go deeper into the records. Love and Light to you….
Stephanie,
I am growing spiritually everyday, I hope, but why is everything being stripped from me, it seems to me that I am being separated (and not by my choice) from people and material possesions that I worked hard to get is this part of the process?
Love and Light,
Leanne
Hello Leanne,
As I am not in your Records I cannot tell you why you are entering a phase in life that pertains to loss. What I can say from my own personal experience and from having worked with the Akashic Records is that nothing in life that happens to us is a coincidence. All things we encounter is serving us in one form or another. It is certainly easier to embrace the positive experiences that we encounter in life, they are not painful however it is much harder to embrace and “know” that the times of trials in our lives are also a gift given to us. Often times it is to overcome fears, anxiety, loneliness or in your case maybe it is about understanding loss better and how not to be dependent or attached to material possessions or people. Sometimes loss is really about getting rid of old habits and emotions, ruts that we are stuck in and this loss or letting go is about making room for new experiences, new people, new material possessions. Without being in your Records I cannot say what this means for you personally but I can say that “yes there is a purpose behind what you are experiencing”.
May Love and Light shine upon you for illumination
Stephanie
Thank you for such clarity with reference to ‘change is all there is within the awareness……. This article brought me to tears…..happy tears! x